Dominance: It’s Not Her, It’s You!

Most men want dominance over their women unless they’re otherwise inclined. But the reality of attaining this position is not about how a female feels about you, it’s about how you feel about yourself.

Many guys are far too concerned about what women feel, their behavior and inclinations. Dudes base their reactions on these indicators and adjust themselves accordingly to appease a specific woman or several.

When things don’t work out, and the woman leaves, they’re heartbroken and struggle for answers that yield more questions than solutions.

Alas, when all else fails, many guys are ready to damage someone else or themselves, which are not positive ways to bring closure.

If a man really wants to be dominant, he’ll remove women from the equation and keep the focus on himself. (Put females on the back burner for a minute.) He will develop his confidence by taking 100% responsibility for his life, never deferring to anyone or thing.

He is self-reliant and controls his thoughts and behavior, moving with clarity and purpose while working to achieve specific goals. (Ironically, his single-mindedness will increase his appeal to women, who are notorious for wanting the unattainable.)

He doesn’t react based on mood or whim and focuses on what he can do in the present to realize his dreams.

He knows exactly what he wants and isn’t dependent on circumstances. He makes opportunities and capitalizes on them. This means he handles whatever’s thrown at him, always turning a negative into a positive.

He can work with a team or alone. It doesn’t matter. Just like he deals with a woman, he’s open to those who are sincere about running with him, provided they meet his criteria.

So fellas, she’s not your problem, and if you work diligently to improve yourself, she never will be.

Later,

Gary

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