4 Things You Should Know When Dating Women

If your goal is to get women, I’m giving you the basics. 

Keeping it real, I don’t advocate chasing anything other than your goals; which is the only endeavor that’ll give you an unconditional payoff. 

But if having fine women is your thing, they’re a few things you must know.

Social Dynamics: Quality women want high achievers. A successful man will have access to female beauty, companionship, and sex. Call it hypergamy, gold-digging or unfair. It’s just that simple. If you want to run with fine women, you must be in command. This means setting hard boundaries and not being afraid to enforce them, even if you must cut her loose. A woman’s looks cannot supersede your self-esteem. She can’t mean more to you than you do to yourself. If you allow this dynamic to shift, you’re doomed to being cheated on, simping and getting dumped. In fact, living with the guilt of letting yourself down is worse than the abuse you endured. 

Responsibility: This is more than having a job and paying bills. You must take 100% responsibility for every aspect of your life, right down to how you think. Make a list and set goals for each area. For example, if you’re serious about starting a business, tell your woman what you want her to do. Qualities in this area include patience, support, and thriftiness. Building a business takes time and finances might be tight. If she’s onboard fine. Otherwise, let her go. She’ll hold you back. As mentioned above, her appearance cannot preempt your goals and desires. You are in charge. 

Self-Development: You must work on yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially. Create tasks in these areas. For instance, working out, use your intellect to solve problems (if your job isn’t mentally stimulating, find a hobby that is), meditate, and save money. Whatever plan for growth you devise, stick to it, even for a few minutes a day, and create benchmarks for improvement. It’s vital that you keep growing and continually set higher standards of achievement.  

Finances: Money defines your efforts to improve yourself. Nobody wants to deal with a broke dude that’s always begging and seems incapable of solving his problems. Attach money to your goals. This will enhance your attractiveness to women because money equals security, status, and power. In fact, an average-looking guy is suddenly irresistible when his bank account swells. Women will want you and use any manner of game to lock you down. You must remain vigilant and scrutinize everyone in your circle because these are the people that can do the most damage to your finances and reputation. As I like to say, “Keep your mind right and game tight.” Stay focused and soon they’ll be plenty of women wanting your company, but do you want theirs? Check yourself. 

You will run into internal challenges while trying to apply these concepts. Don’t worry, it’s normal. Stay cool, use logic and rationality to work through rough spots. 

If you’re dedicated, I guarantee results. This isn’t an empty promise. You’re simply claiming the power you already possess. 

Later, 

Gary